“Difficult takes a day, impossible takes a week.”
Jay-Z, “Diamonds from the Sierra Leone”
So how do I know so much about money? Trial by fire/life
experience.
When I was 19 I wanted to buy a (no doubt hideous dress) from a
chain store that was offering an extra percent off when you opened a credit
card. I applied at the register and was denied. A few weeks later I got the
letter in the mail from the credit card company explaining why: All total, I
had nearly $250,000 in credit card, car loan, and bank debt that I had known
nothing about.
It turns out that a family member had used my
information to run up this debt and I was indeed responsible for it.
Growing up, I listened to my parents fight about
money constantly. I knew I never, ever wanted to be in a position where I was
controlled by debt, but here I was. I got a few dozen books from the library,
read up on my circumstances and decided that I needed to get a handle on the
situation. I followed the instructions, learned a lot, and have never worked so
hard in my life.
It took a few long years but I did it. I am now a
boring middle-aged lady with two kids and a husband. Using the knowledge I
gained through my awful experience, I have been able to guide my family to
success. My husband and I bought and paid off a house in 3 years, sold it for a
profit, bought our dream house in Pittsburgh, paid off our car loans, and
stayed debt-free through the whole thing. We have recently relocated to LA and
are living on a single income as a family of 4 in one of the most expensive
cities in the country.
Music and pop culture have always influenced me and continue to inspire me - you'll find a lot of that mixed in here.
Mind On Your Money won’t be able to help you choose the right company
to buy in a hostile takeover or help you shop for yacht insurance. But! When
your mind is on your money it’s hard to focus on anything else. I get it, I've been there. Let's do this.
I had NO idea that you went through this! KUDOS to you Mama you never cease to amaze & impress me.
ReplyDeleteAw, thanks! It was nothing too big to handle. It just took time.
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